‘Kiora Kith and Kin’ by Shirley Jurmann

The latest publication by the Moruya and District Historical Society is the wonderful book Kiora Kith and Kin, written by Shirley Jurmann.

Kiora Kith and Kin is the story of European settlement of the Kiora, Wamban and Mungerarie areas near Moruya on the south coast of NSW, Australia, and the pioneer families who lived there.

Shirley is a member of our society and it was with great pleasure that I asked her the following question. Shirley’s detailed answers demonstrate her not only her passion for the history of this beautiful area but also the collaborative nature of the writing process.

This book is on sale through the museum for the extremely reasonable price of $20. For details of the book’s contents click here.

The author as a very young visitor to Kiora with a Luck Street neighbour, Joyce Berriman.

BH: Before we discuss your book Kiora Kith and Kin, what does the district Kiora mean to you?
SJ: Kiora has always been a special place for me. My father’s family were not pioneer settlers but have had a close association with the place since the 1860s when my great grandfather Joseph Louttit started taking his boat up the river to collect the farmers’ produce to take to the Sydney markets. Early in the 1900s my grandfather Sid Louttit farmed there on one of the Collett farms. Later my Uncle Jack Louttit bought the original Collett homestead and had a market garden there. Other relatives also farmed at Kiora. My father, his brothers and one of his sisters attended the Kiora school. When I was a small child we often went for Sunday drives to visit my uncle, aunt and cousin.

BH: What inspired you to write your book Kiora Kith and Kin?
SJ: At the wake after my father’s funeral in 1972 I was given a copy of a Kiora school photo. In the photo were my father Roly Louttit and his brothers Jack and Vic. The names of all the children were on the back. A few years ago I looked at this photo again and began to wonder who these children were. I began to try to trace them. Who were their parents? What became of these children? Who did they marry? Did they stay in the Moruya/Kiora area or move on to perceived greener pastures? With the help of the Moruya and District Pioneer Registers, put out by the MDHS, and the NSW Births, Deaths and Marriage records, I was able to find that all of these children, except for the teacher’s family, were born in the area as had their parents and even some of their grandparents. They were all from long term Moruya/Kiora families. Some stayed, some moved on, some married locally born people. My interest in the families and area grew. I mentioned to Wendy Simes that I wouldn’t mind putting something together on Kiora for the MDHS. She seemed to think it wouldn’t be a bad idea.

BH: Where were you able to find your fascinating source material?
SJ: I began by going through as many books on the Moruya area as I could and extracting any mention of Kiora. I found out what I could about John Hawdon, first settler, the establishment of the Kiora Estate and Kiora House, the convicts, other settlers, the trials of floods, droughts, bushfires, tragedies. Wendy fed me information held by the MDHS including lists of convicts, people who had lived there, burials in the Kiora cemetery, photos, Phyllis Stiskin’s notes on the Kiora school. She arranged a meeting for me with Huw Owen-Jones, the present owner of Kiora House.

I combed through the Pioneer Directories for any reference to people living at Kiora. I knew several people who lived or had lived, at Kiora. I contacted everyone I could think of. They were all helpful. John Clarke wrote me a piece on his memories of who lived where in the 1940s-50s and provided some photos. Brian Clarke provided information and photos of the property “Jilambra”, originally part of the Hawdon Estate. Huw Owen-Jones allowed me to take photos of Kiora House and showed me paintings of Agnes Josephine Hawdon who died aged 4 in 1864. and of Kiora House when it was derelict. He showed me where Annie Hawdon had scratched her name and the date into a window pane with her diamond engagement ring, on the occasion of her 21st birthday and engagement party in 1865. It is still quite clearly visible.

The Hawdon family of Kiora
The Emmott and Hawdon families Correction: This is a photo of the Emmott family of Moruya dated 1887. Fortunately there are some Hawdons in the photo. Ernest Hawdon is back row on the right. His wife Elizabeth Hawdon nee Emmott is below him on the 2nd back row and their children Margaret, Werge, Ernie, John and Leslie are in the photo as well.

I contacted Sue Knight nee Collett to ask if she had any early Collett photos. She didn’t but referred me to Linda Robertson nee Collett. Surprise! She lived only about 20 minutes from me. I went to visit her and she was most helpful with information, photos and a photocopy of Caroline Collett’s 1916 Diary. My cousin Jennie Burgess nee Louttit, now in her 80s had lived as a child at Mungerarie House, the old Collett home built in the late 1850s. She was able to give me a description of the house and rooms. One memory she is not fond of was the 30 feet long hallway up the middle of the house which her house-proud mother insisted she polish every week on her hands and knees when she was only about 12.

John Tranter whose father started the Moruya Cordial factory in the old cheese factory shared some memories. Jenny Pollock nee Evans, a Hawdon descendant, shared some photos. At the MDHS one day I met by accident Damien Rodgers whose parents had done some of the restoration work on Kiora House. He told of a drawing done by convicts of the ship on which they came to Australia. It had accidently been painted over when renovations were being done. He spoke of seeing a ghost at the end of his bed one night. Presents owners have not seen any ghosts!

Bruce Coppin spoke of being one of the first on the scene of an accident in 1966. Eileen Irwin was driving across the Kiora Bridge when she lost control of the car. It hit the side and plunged into the water. The rescuers were able to pull her from the car but her daughter Karen aged 4 was not so lucky. It was the time before compulsory seatbelts. When the car turned over the small child was thrown under the dashboard where she became jammed. She was not found until it was too late and she drowned.

Debbie Bruen provided a photo of her 1990 wedding at Kiora House. It was fitting that she married there as she was descended from the Jeffery family who were early settlers to the area, Kathy Smith provided a photo of the original Kiora school and of her ancestor Daniel Green who was headmaster there. At first it seemed doubtful that Kiora had had such a school but in Phyllis Stiskin’s notes on the KIora school were the plans of just such a building. I found information on the internet about assisted immigrants.

The 100 year booklets put out by the MDHS provided newspaper reports of happenings to do with Kiora and I found other bits and pieces in old newspapers including my parents’ paper “The Moruya Advertiser”. Dawn Daken was an absolute treasure. She drove my sister-in-law Ruth and me around Kiora, showing us where everything was or had been. She showed us through the old church now converted into a cottage but with signs of the old church still visible, including an arched window and the interior churchlike ceiling. I had another accidental meeting of interest.

A couple of years ago I was returning from Moruya. I usually catch the bus to Sydney, spend a few hours there and catch the bus north to Port Macquarie. I was sitting in the waiting room and got chatting to the lady beside me. I mentioned that I was returning from Moruya. She said her mother grew up in Moruya. I asked the name and she said “Dulcie Shumack”. I immediately said “As in Kiora school teacher?” She was amazed that I knew the name as the family had been gone from the area by 1930. We exchanged bits of information.

BH: Do you have special or personal memories of an earlier Kiora?

Shirley Jurmann

SJ: My personal memories include visiting relatives and stories told by my father. As children we sometimes rode our bicycles out to the bridge. We even had some school swimming lessons there in the days before Moruya had a pool. Kiora House was derelict at that time and there were stories of it being haunted by convicts rattling chains! The Kiora school was closed and moved into Moruya. It was still there when I attended school there so I spent a couple of years of my schooling in the same room where my father had gone to school.

Another favourite anecdote would have to be the one about Annie Hawdon and her scratching her name and date into the window pane f Kiora House, and it is still there 150 years later! Picture the scene, very much like the attached parlour scene picture of the same year. The previous year would have been a sad one for the family with little Agnes Josephine, daughter of Annie’s brother William, dying at the age of 4 from diphtheria. Now was a chance to celebrate new happiness.

A typical parlour at the time that Ann Howdon
A typical parlour at the time that Ann Hawdon scratched her name and the date into the window pane

BH: You talk of many of the early settlers of the Kiora district. Did you have any favourite anecdotes about any of the early characters/settlers of the area?
SJ: One thing that really saddened me was reading about the early deaths of so many small children.

A favourite anecdote would have to be the one about Annie Hawdon and her scratching her name and date into the window pane, and it is still there 150 years later! The previous year would have been a sad one for the family with little Agnes Josephine, daughter of Annie’s brother William, dying at the age of 4 from diphtheria. Now was a chance to celebrate new happiness.

I was impressed by the restoration of “Jilambra” by Brian and Marylyn Clarke and the work done by various people to restore Kiora House.

BH: When doing your research did you discover any surprising facts about Kiora – the place or its people?
SJ: I knew Kiora had been much more closely populated than it is today but I was really surprised that at the time Moruya was declared a town in the 1850s Kiora was competing with Moruya in its rate of progress and expansion.

BH: Your book goes into detail about some of the surprising buildings businesses that were part of the thriving Kiora community. Do you have a favourite building out of the remaining structures?
SJ: Kiora House and Jilambra would have to be my favourite buildings. Their faithful restorations are wonderful to see and a credit to the people who did them.

Kiora House
Kiora House

BH What was the hardest part of putting your research into its current format?
SJ: I was continually writing, rewriting, adding, subtracting, refining and polishing as I went along. Just when I thought I had finished something else interesting would turn up. Eventually I thought I had put together enough. I sent it off to Wendy. She did a great job of editing, rearranging and regrouping items with a common theme and providing an index.

BH: Why did you choose to give your book the title Kiora Kith and Kin?
SJ: I wanted the book to be something more than an account of historical facts, more like a family history with anecdotes about families, how they came to the area and what they did. “Kith and Kin’’’ seemed to fit in with that idea and of course the “Ks” fitted in with Kiora! I am always looking for quirky titles to things I write!

BH Kiora has had a fascinating past. What do you think that the future has in store for Kiora?
SJ: I doubt that Kiora will ever see anything like its past. It is today a beautiful rural area with smaller holdings, a pleasant place to live, with lovely views and I hope it will always stay that way.

BH: Finally, what will be the topic of your next book or article?
SJ: I have written books on my mother’s and my father’s families. I enjoy researching my children-in-law’s families (they have some fascinating ancestors!). I have written several articles for the MDHS Journal and am at present working on one on Thalia Parbery whose husband drowned in the Moruya River in 1855. I would love to do anything on Moruya but I doubt that I could find anything as interesting as Kiora or with such a lot of information available.

The opening of the Kiora Bridge in 1890
The opening of the Kiora Bridge
Kiora Bridge today
Kiora Bridge today
The Kiora district today
The Kiora district today

19 responses to “‘Kiora Kith and Kin’ by Shirley Jurmann”

  1. David Foster Avatar
    David Foster

    Hi Brian
    I will read this later. I am certain Mrs Jurmann was our school teacher at some stage.

  2. peter freeman Avatar

    what a great achievement, shirley and wendy.. look forward to reading it.. and thanks Brian for making the writing story come to life!!

  3. Anne McDougall Avatar
    Anne McDougall

    Congratulations Shirley on your book which I am very much looking forward to purchasing and reading. I also spent a year or two in the old Kiora school building at Moruya with you ( Anne Koellner) and enjoyed my Primary school years very much. I am sorry to have to tell you that the photo in this blog “The Hawdon family of Kiora” is actually the Emmott family of Moruya dated 1887. Fortunately there are some Hawdons in the photo. Ernest Hawdon is back row on the right. His wife Elizabeth Hawdon nee Emmott is below him on the 2nd back row and their children Margaret, Werge, Ernie, John and Leslie are in the photo as well.

    1. Shirley Jurmann Avatar
      Shirley Jurmann

      Yes David. I was a teacher at Moruya from 1971 to 1983 as well as being a pupil from 1946 to 1957. I do remember you.
      Thanks for your comment Peter
      Hello Anne! The photo on the blog is not in the book. I remember you very well when you lived up the top of Gundary hill

  4. mdhsociety Avatar

    Many thanks Anne for your comments and suggestions. The mistake was all my fault – definitely not Shirley’s. I have ammended the photo’s label so that it is correct.

  5. Anne McDougall Avatar
    Anne McDougall

    So pleased that Shirley,my school mate of long ago, has written this book. We first met in that old Kiora school room with Mrs. Simpson as our teacher I think. I didn’t start school with you Shirley, but we moved to Moruya when I was in 2nd class. What wonderful teachers we had in Mick Barwick and his wife and Fred Tranter – I remember them with great fondness as they instilled a love for learning all sorts of subjects. In particular I loved the Australian poetry they made us learn by heart. I hope you go on to further writing Shirley.

    1. Shirley Jurmann Avatar
      Shirley Jurmann

      I did not like school in Kindergarten and 1st class. When I hit 2nd class with Mrs Simpson I began to love school. This continued with Mr and Mrs Barwick and Fred Tranter. These four were real inspirations. I am putting together something on Emmotts store for the MDHS journal, from verandah of “Merlyn” to Harris Scarfe. Hope you will find this interesting. I am referring to your mother’s notes for some of it. I remember a set of water colour paints you had which had belonged to your mother when she studied art in Sydney I think. I greatly envied you that!

  6. Donna Cooke Avatar
    Donna Cooke

    Does the book include any information on the family of my ancestor Joseph Hibel? His daugther Maria was my great-grandmother.

    1. Shirley Jurmann Avatar
      Shirley Jurmann

      Yes Donna there is information on Joseph Hibel. Most of Joseph and Ann’s children were born at Kiora or Wamban with two at “Widget” Bodalla. Daughter Alice died at Kiora aged two months. Daughter Elizabeth married my great grandfather’s brother.

  7. Cait Avatar

    My late grandmother did our family tree and discovered we have family buried out at Kiora. It would be wonderful to trace their stories.

  8. peter freeman Avatar

    Anne.. I look forward to the article on the Emmott’s store.. kind regards peterf

  9. cheryl bryce Avatar
    cheryl bryce

    Hi Shirley, I am relative of John Hawdon, my grandmother was Frances Beatrice Hawdon and I am looking for any information or photos of her and the family as we have only recently discovered her family line. My mother (Faith Gardiner) was the youngest child of Frances’s who died 3 days after giving birth to her prematurely in 1922 in Lismore. Mum’s siblings were Winifred Harriet, Alwyn J, William Joseph and Charles Alfred) and therefore she never saw a photo or knew much about her mother or her family. any information would be very appreciated. kind regards Cheryl Bryce.

  10. peter Avatar

    Dear Shirley, I would like to know if you have any information about my great, great grandfather David Evans Jones (senior) who was tutor to the Hawdon children at kiora in 1857. Much looking forward to your response!
    Thanks in advance. Regards

    1. cheryl bryce Avatar
      cheryl bryce

      HI Peter, my grandmother was Francis Beatrice Hawdon from Kiora born 9/8/1882. Wondering if you may have any photographs from your great-great grandfathers time as we are searching for photos. thanks for any information you may have in advance, regards cheryl

  11. John Gipps Avatar
    John Gipps

    Hi Shirley

    Annie Hawdon was my Great Grandmother – her daughter Gwen Wilson (who gave her maiden name as Gwen Hawdon-Wilson) was my Grandmother.

    I’ve just read about your book “Kiaora Kith and Kin” with great interest, and have downloaded an order form and will order it as soon as I’ve worked out the postage charges etc. I’m not sure what it will hold for me, but I am very interested in any writings that give me information about my ancestors. Perhaps you could recommend other books and publications available from the MDH Society / Museum that might give me more material on the Hawdon Family, and in particular on the life of Annie Hawdon.

    There were a number of stories passed down through our family of happenings in the time of the Hawdon family, and amongst them, the inscription of Annie’s name on a window as mentioned above. On a trip back from Victoria with my family, I looked in at Hawdon House – this would have been in about 2000 or 2001. There was no one there at the time, so I very cheekily walked around the property and snapped a huge number of photographs of the house and grounds. I had hoped to find the window engraved with Annie’s name, so famous in our family, but alas couldn’t find it.

    Looking forward to reading your book.

    Best Regards

    John Gipps

  12. Shirley Jurmann Avatar
    Shirley Jurmann

    Hi John, Hope you enjoy the Kiora book when you get it. The present owners have been plagued by people wanting to have a look around Kiora House so naturally are not keen to have people there. I was lucky in that one of the members of MDHS knew the owner personally and was able to get me an interview with him. I took photos of the outside from all angles and then he invited us to have a look at Annie’s signature and also showed us some paintings which he was happy to let me photograph. The only other mention I have seen of Annie is in Caroline Collett’s 1916 diary when she mention’s that they had heard that Mrs Wilson had sold her property

  13. Lauraine Avatar

    My relative Martha Canovan Christie worked for Mr Hawdon at Kiora before she married James Elliott c 1840

  14. Jeanette Avatar

    My ancestor was Martha COPPIN and her mother, Harriet, Mrs Job Neale Coppin nee HORTON married after her first marriage disappeared a fellow by the name Richard Mepstead who was an ex convict. Richard Mepstead apparently owned or lease the “PLOUGH INN” in Campbell Street, Moruya NSW. Harriet had 3 children 1. John Coppin 2. Hannah Coppin 3. Martha Coppin.
    Hannah married Henry Wilson and later John Delofski. John married Mary Clara Ahearn. Martha Coppin had a child to Ernest Hawdon and that is proved by DNA results. Later on Martha Coppin married Stephen Parker, Oliver Henry Sommerville and lastly William Burke. Not all at once mind you.
    Another of my ancestors is Captain William Knox which I have a photo of him with his wife Elizabeth Chapman. They lived in Coila not far from Moruya. Captain William died and Elizabeth went on to marry John McLean a Scotsman.

    I hope this message is going to be viewed by the writer of the book, Shirley Jurmann.

    Kind Regards
    Jeanette Egan nee Knox

  15. Don Flanagan Avatar
    Don Flanagan

    Hi we were fortunate enough to own Kiora House in early 1990s. We spent a large amount of money on restorations, and painting the house, replaced sagging ceilings with cedar boards etc. We had landscapers from Sydney create a garden, planting trees and borders between the house and the coach house. Water was a problem as we were not permitted to use the river water. We had to use town water.I think some trees have survived.
    The small window pane on which is scratched the Annie Hawdon inscription was intact then. We were very careful not to allow the builders to open that French door. We did visit unannounced around 1995 and no one was at home. We walked around to check on the window,the door was swinging open and sadly it was cracked. We were truly upset to see that. The National Trust had asked us to leave the door locked.
    With regard to ghosts , we really didn’t believe in them until one night we were sleeping in the bedroom above the kitchen. Around 2a.m. we were woken by loud sounds of pots and pans and voices in the kitchen. Went down to discover all was locked up and no one there.
    Friends , a young couple , came to stay for a few days and slept in the morning room which adjoins the lounge room, the morning after they arrived they came into breakfast in the kitchen ashen faced. They asked if we had knocked on their door during the night. They said the loud knocking woke them both and they sat up in bed terrified.We had slept unaware well away from their room and had no other guests.
    They decided not to stay another night, I have seen them since and he recounted the experience. Strange that they had both experienced that.
    We arrived from Sydney one night at round midnight. After getting the Aga stove alight I decided to walk down the drive to see if the dam was full. When I started to walk from the house I heard galloping horses,it sounded like two or three horses and men calling out. I thought they were galloping towards me down the driveway, the galloping sound got louder and louder ,I wondered how they got through the gates. I ran inside to get my wife Leigh but when we came back out all was still. Someone told me that cattle-can stampede in the night. It didn’t sound at all like cattle.
    We did enjoy our time living in lovely Kiora House, great family Christmases , tennis games with a house full of friends. A lavish wedding in the refurbished coach house for our oldest son. Many happy memories.

    Don Flanagan

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